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President Ulysses S. Grant was married to Julia Dent who famously had crossed eyes. When he became president she was distressed that her appearance may be a hindrance to her role as First Lady and contemplated having surgery to correct it. Ulysses would hear none of it. “Dear Julia, I don’t want to have your eyes fooled with. They are all right as they are. They look just as they did the very first time I ever saw them – the same eyes I looked into when I fell in love with you – the same eyes that looked up into mine and told me that my love was returned.” And on another occasion.. “Did I not see you and fall in love with you with these same eyes? I like them just as they are; and now, remember, you are not to interfere with them. They are mine, and let me tell you, Mrs. Grant, you had better not make any experiments, as I might not like you half so well with any other eyes.” They were married for almost 40 years until Grant died at only 63 years old. Knowing he was dying Grant spent his last months frantically writing his memoirs so that Julia and their children would have an John mason unapologetically biblical shirt
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